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Sexting Successfully Is All About Picking The Right Words
While you do get some points for making the effort to use your cell phone to communicate with your partner sexually, sexting is not going to work well (or at all) if you’re not picking the right words and using the right language. For example, lame (but somehow popular) phrases might sound something like:DON’T MISS: How To Give ANY Woman Multiple Orgasms
- “You are so sexy…”
- “I like your tits…”
- “You are hot…”
This is where understanding the primary difference between they way men and women think about sex comes in. A man’s sex drive is often ignited by anything visual, such as porn, a naughty pic or even just a woman in a bikini. On the other hand, however, a woman’s sex drive is ignited by the exact opposite – a woman will get more turned on by reading or imagining something than just looking at it.
Instead of using lame phrases, strive to create sensual language when sexting your lover. Fore example, think of ways you can change an ordinary text into something incredible:
Using Primal, Sensual Language
A woman isn’t going to be turned on by hearing the words “tits,” or “sexy,” or “hot.” These just aren’t going to do it. The word “tits” does absolutely nothing to spark a woman’s imagination. On the other hand, however, using the word “thrust” is more likely to send your partner into a memory of the last time you two had particularly amazing sex – and she’s going to replay your thrusting in her mind over and over again – all because you used one simple word.Another example of using primal language might be to use the word “lick” or “suck.” Instead of sexting your woman and saying “I want to go down on you,” you might want to say something like, “I can’t wait to get home and put my hot tongue on your clitoris. I’m going to lick you up and down until you squirt.” By using such sexy, descriptive language, you’re going to get your girl to immediately start imagining you performing oral sex.
Stimulate The “Sex” Area Of Your Lover’s Brain
So you know that using details and language that really play into the sexual part of a woman’s mind is the key to sexting. But what exactly are the phrases that when put into any text will instantly get your lover’s mind working? Next time you send your lover a racy text, try using some of these words when describing what you want to do – and what you want your woman to do to you.- Thrust
- Scratch
- Hips
- Hair
- Eyes
- Throat
- Nipple
- Shudder
- Shock
- Force
- Grab
- Giggle
- Slap
- Spank
- Lick
- Suck
- Tickle
- Touch
- Slide
- Soft
- Hot
- Sweaty
- Throbbing
- Shaking
- Wet
- Dripping
- Sticky
- Taste
- Feel
- Hard
- Manmeat
- Man sausage
- Love button
- Sex hole
- Globes
- Love stick
- Muffin